She gave me support and encouragement during a time when my life was completely destabilized.

By Joelle Theresa Ngo Dating a musician seems like a thing that most teenagers wish to experience because, honestly, who hasn't had that fantasy of dating the badass lead singer of their favorite band or the sensitive singer-songwriter?

The lucky girlfriend of Selasi Gbormittah from The Great British Bake Off has been named, breaking the hearts of everyone who wanted him to be with fellow baker Benjamina Ebuehi.

Ghanian Selasi, 30, has been dating property worker Joelle Rainford, 28, for over two and a half years and their relationship is so tight she even calls him ‘the boss’.

I know because I used to wish I'd date one when I was in high school, little did I know that I'd actually end up being in a relationship with a musician when I grow up.

As awesome as it is to date one, you've got to know that it doesn't play out like you see in the movies.

Maybe the military, education, and maybe even the Academy Awards.In fact, it'll be one of the toughest things ever, considering their abnormal schedules and their creative mood swings.However, in my case, I can say that dating a musician has been one of the best things that has ever happened to me.#greece #medsailors #agkistri #agistri #greekislands #boatlife #cheekybootyshot #booty #peachy #haha #grecian #togaparty #lastislandparty #glitter #toga #frecklesfordays #redheadarmy #toomanyshots #sailbekind #manoverboard #igotboatskills #ontothenextisland A post shared by Joelle (@r_joelle) on #longweekend #augustbankholiday #thebluepool #thebluepooldorset #dorset #daysout #theraindidntstopus #umbrellaneeded #orwasthishisdisguise #hidingunderacap 💧😂✌🏽️ A post shared by Joelle (@r_joelle) on Viewers might want to start calling Selasi ‘the boss’ now, after Joelle wrote under an Instagram shot of a salad he made: ‘Grilled squid, prawn & seabream with crispy pancetta and pepper salsa …#mediterraneanstyle made by the boss himself.’ Sadly, this week 23-year-old teaching assistant Benjamina was kicked out of the competition just before the quarter-final so she and Selasi have gone through a sort of break-up.